For over a decade, Julie Lalonde, an award-winning advocate for women's rights, kept a secret. She crisscrossed the country, denouncing violence against women and giving hundreds of media interviews along the way. Her work made national headlines for challenging universities and taking on Canada's top military brass. Appearing fearless on the surface, Julie met every interview and event with the same fear in her gut: was he there? Fleeing intimate partner violence at age 20, Julie was stalked by her ex-partner for over ten years, rarely mentioning it to friends, let alone addressing it publicly. The contrast between her public career as a brave champion for women with her own private life of violence and fear meant a shaky and exhausting balancing act. Resilience sounds like a positive thing, so why do we often use it against women? Tenacity and bravery might help us survive unimaginable horrors, but where are the spaces for anger and vulnerability? Resilience is Futile is a story of survival, courage and ultimately, hope. But it's also a challenge to the ways we understand trauma and resilience. It's the story of one survivor who won't give up and refuses to shut up.

Voici le récit autobiographique bouleversant de Julie S. Lalonde, une militante pour les droits des femmes dont le copain Xavier, un charmeur aux allures de troll inoffensif, s'est peu à peu transformé en harceleur obsessionnel. Pendant dix ans, Julie dénonçait en public la violence envers les femmes en même temps qu'elle devait gérer, en privé, la terreur que lui faisait vivre Xavier. Relatant sa vie d'adulte vécue sous la surveillance constante de son ex, Lalonde expose avec courage les ratés du système judiciaire, l'intransigeance de la société envers les victimes et la difficulté de se reconstruire après des années d'abus.